苏格拉底与失恋者的对话

苏格拉底：“孩子，为什么悲伤？”

失恋者：“我失恋了。”

苏格 拉底：“哦，这很正常。如果失恋了没有悲伤，恋爱大概也就没有什么味道了。可是，年轻人，我怎么发现你对失恋的投入甚至比你对恋爱的投入还要倾心呢？”

失 恋者：“到手的葡萄给丢了，这份遗憾，这份失落，您非个中人，怎知其中的酸楚啊！”

苏格拉底：“丢了就丢了，何不继续向前走去，鲜美的葡萄还有很 多。”


失恋者：“我要等到海枯石烂，直到她回心转意向我走来。”


苏格拉底：“但这一天也许永远不会到来。”


失恋者：“那我就用自杀来表示我的诚心。”


苏格拉底：“如果这样，你不但失去了你的恋人，同时还失去了你自己，你会蒙受双倍的损失。”


失恋者：“踩上她一脚如 何？我得不到的别人也别想得到。”


苏格拉底：“这只能是你离她更远，而你本来是想与她更接近的。”


失恋者：“您说我该怎么办？我真的很爱她。”


苏格拉底：“真的很爱她？那你当然希望你所爱的人幸福？”


失恋者：“那是当然。”


苏格拉底：“如果她认为离开你是一种幸福呢？”


失 恋者：“不会的！她曾经跟我说，只有跟我在一起的时候，她才感到幸福！”


苏格拉底：“那是曾经，是过去，可她现在并不这么认为。”


失恋 者：“这就是说，她一直在骗我？”


苏格拉底：“不，她一直对你很忠诚的了。当她爱你的时候，她和你在一起，现在她不爱你，她就离去了，世界上再也 没有比这更大的忠诚。如果她不再爱你，却要装着对你很有感情，甚至跟你结婚、生子，那才是真正的欺骗呢！”


失恋者：“那我为她投入的感情不是白白浪费了吗？谁来补偿我？”


苏格拉底：“不，你的感情从来没有浪费，因为你在付出感情的同时，她也对你付出了感情，在你给她快乐的时候，她也给了你 快乐。”


失恋者：“可是，她现在不爱我了，我却还苦苦地爱着她，这是多么不公平啊！”


苏格拉底：“的确不公平，我是说你对所爱的那个人不 公平。本来，爱她是你的权利，但爱不爱你则是她的权利，而你想在自己行使权利的时候剥夺别人行使权利的自由，这是何等的不公平！”


失恋者：“可是 您看得明白，现在痛苦的人是我不是她，使我在为她痛苦。”


苏格拉底：“为她而痛苦？她的日子过得很好，不如说是你为自己而痛苦吧！”


失恋 者：“依您的说法，这一切倒成了我的错？”


苏格拉底：“是的，从一开始你就犯错。如果你能给她带来幸福，她是不会从你的生活中离开的，要知道，没 有人会逃避幸福，不过时间会抚平你心灵的创伤。”


失恋者：“但愿我也有这一天，可我第一步应该从哪里做起呢？”


苏格拉底：“去感谢那个抛弃你的人，为她祝福。”


失恋者：“为什么？”


苏格拉底：“因为她给了你寻找幸福的新的机会。”

表将嘛

请你别再骗我了

我怕

我承受不了

我怕

我们就这样完了

好吗？

happy birthday to my dear ^^v

this is the present i gave for you
and the album + frame which is made by me =D
hope you will like it =]
before his birthday i alr curi curi put into his house ( hide in some places)
i called him at 12am and asked him to search xD
hmmmm..now i curi curi go to dear's house again without inform him when he is study =p
and i had bought a cake and simpan at his refrigerator =p
is going to make dinner for my dear =D

to be continue

ishhh.dear alr know i went his house because before he back home he alr gap my blog ( sad )
no surprise dy nor =(
dear i love you =)
pic at fb.lazy upload
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well.today is also our presentation of hubungan etnik
so nervous tim =x

yoyo xD formal?? =p

my group's member with all in long pant except me -.-''

yeah say cheese ^^v

lol =x sor por

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last saturday,me,su ying and ling went timesquare =)

my purpose to go there is because i want to buy high heel shoe for my presentation lo~

~when inside the monorail~

i'm trying dress =p duno what to wear to attend the OO night -.-

yo xD before meet with su ying. i went timesqure with my hostel's friends by bus^^

hmm..how about this?

but i dint buy this (>.<)

aikz.spent money again.almost RM150

bought a high heel shoe and some dress + belt =)

and that day me and ling slept at su ying's house ~~

爱

你说 、你爱她 ？

你会不会把她介绍给你的父母 、哪怕她不是他们喜欢的类型？

你会不会为她放下你的少爷脾气、在外顶天立地，对她就温柔的'没底气?

你会不会在争吵后主动道歉、哪怕她错，你也不忍心责怪？

你会不会打心底认为、她是天底下最好的女孩，一旦拥有、别无所求？

你会不会在她生病时领她去打针，然后看她害怕的憋红的眼睛紧紧的抓着她的手抱着她？

你会不会'不小心'就记得、她爱吃的她不爱吃的、她对什么过敏她害怕什么虫子？

你会不会带她去看新上映的电影、在她手里塞上一个冰激凌、然后她笑你笑，她哭你哄？

你会不会在她赖床后匆匆上课的早晨、准备好早餐，看她像小猫一样乖乖吃掉？

你会不会在她嘴硬时、看穿她其实需要保护需要温暖的内心，给她最好的疼爱？

你会不会每天都像昨天一样爱她、每天都比昨天更爱她？



你说、你爱她？

你能不能记住你们的每一个纪念日、记住今天是在一起的第几天？

你能不能坚持为她养成一个习惯、从第一天为她做、就做到每一天都为她做？

你能不能在她无理取闹胡思乱想的时候、给她足够的安全感，不会对她不耐烦？

你能不能在很冷很冷的冬天、也坚持送她回去，抱抱她看她上楼再离开？

你能不能时刻都牵着她的手、无论是过马路逛公园，或是在朋友师长面前？

你能不能细心的记住她说的话、留意她喜欢的东西、保管她送你的礼物？

你能不能不欺骗她、不冷落她、不忽略她？

你能不能为她24小时开机、在她做噩梦的晚上有人可以哄她睡觉？

你能不能不只把她当花瓶、有心事会对她说、决定也会找她商量？

你能不能不再大手大脚、只为了攒下钱带她去吃好吃的、去想去的地方？



你能不能真诚的说'我错了'、'我想你'、'我爱你'.


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copy from my sister's blog.
i'm too bored to do this and read this.i found this is so meaningful?
no lar.just same with my sister's opinion.if we found someone like this(what post at above)then you are so ''hang fuk''
i can admit that i can't treat my bf like this lo haha.i'm so bad =p
i love you yahz dear

ishh =( time

i'm busy with homework,coursework,prepare for examination and presentation =(
sleep will waste my time T^T
but i dont have sufficient sleep =(
no one can help me.helpless...
because if i want to pass or score in my studies i need to work hard =(
no pain , no gain
i understand what it means
fight with my lazyness!!!!!!!

tired tired tired

go library almost everyday because of our stupid coursework and presentation


mum asked me when i wan to back kuantan again~ishh..i dont have time leh..
haiz~~~~~
i dont want memorize HE ar(but still need to memorize) T^T what the..!!!

no title

well..yesterday was father's day~~
i bought something so so so gao xiu's thing to my daddy =x
you guys know what was it?
UNDERWEAR XD
Renoma derr..at first i wan to buy a wallet derr,but the price is so -.- expensive lo...
my brrother dont want share with me wor =(
i dont have so much money mar T^T
forgive me lar dadddy =p
i back kl by bus at 3.30pm with my dear,kc and his brother~~
hmmm....i can't fall asleep in the bus because we sit at behind which is so uncomfortable T^T and so hot!!!
7pm reached kl =)
study hubungan etnik then slept~~

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wow.i almost lated to the classes today due to some reason....
my stomach started pain when i step in the class..luckily teacher was late enter class today xD
wooho~~~
exam - duration - 30 min - 20 MCQ
yoyo XD 29/30 pass this paper,the left 1 was so badd luck lo...wahahaha xD
the examination si so so so so easy =p
in the english classes,teacher called me and asked me to speak i nfront of everyone T^T
the topic is ''abolish examination'' .........morning i acccidently heard this news from the radio =.=
me and shu ching started our conversation lur,few min only lar...haha
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this week ( week 5 ): HE and microeconomic examination, submit PTPTN form, dear's birthday
next week (6): presentation of hubungan etnik, pass up account coursework
next next week(7) : Quantitative studies examination , pass up volley ball log book (coursework),
next x3 week(8) : presentation of IA and English,
next x4 week (9): IA examination ,microeconomic coursework 2 ,
next x5 week(10): QS examination 2
and so on lar.lazy to think dy T^T
week 14 is our final examination =s



this week need to prepare next week's thing,,,ishh....i need more time T^T

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/sckioko11/33797569

monday has a test- Hubungan Etnik
actually is our coursework lo.
and micro economics examination is on friday
=(

back (3)

i saw a BIG pikachu at genting =x

yeah.back ktn again =p
morning after finished my classs then terus meet my cousin and mum.pui ling back by bus with ka heng~~
dear follow me..back with my mum and my cousin,
but before we back ktn,we went genting highlands~~~
(when we hampir reach 山顶 our car got some problem,then waste more than 1 hour to solve it =.=)
wow
sibeh cold ar xD
jumpa dear punya kawan kat theme park..
**skip**
actually we go genting for what:?
my cousin wan go casino lo =.=
said real 1 lar.at there i sibeh sienz lo.cuz nothing to buy and no place to walk T^T
hmmmm....ate sushi juznw =D
phew..10 something only balik ktn and reached at 2.30am @@ extremely tired nehz.so i cincai type xD wahahahaha
tomorrow still want go find principal sign for my ptptn loan agreement -.- ( i purposely back ktn because of this) then afternoon want go gaigai =p
i want go oioi now =p byebye~~

cousin

hmmm...today my aunt fetch me and dear go her house

cuz today she dint work mar =)

she wan pindah dy...i go help lur =p

(i help 10% only xD )

i watch movie with my cousin =p then fall asleep dy =.=

dear got helped nehz

so guai

12something start to kept and move all those funiture and others lapsap to another house ( not new house )

i forgot until what time only gao dim =.=

i just know after done we go eat mum mum only xD

with my aunt lurr , my aunt bf =s , pei er + her bf , yong kang , me and dear ^^

haha..sosososo untidy -.-''

messy

yeah ^^v me ( curi ular--ing)

both also yellow xD
my biao di and dear



2 sor lou =p

;D

upddated

phew~~

more than 1 week no update my blog dy

i'm so lazy nehz =.= and nothing special to share also ^^

so now.just post some pictures enough =)

------------------------------------------------- last sunday i went su ying's condo there main water xD

ofcuz my dear going too =]

last saturday went timesquare with dear,TJ,botak

su ying also got go but we seperate

watched movie

[THE PRINCE OF PERSIA]

this is last last sunday xD

follow dear's family go out gai gai

ying,me,wen xin,min liang

haha

funny

stupid dear